Am I Reading This Too Positively?

aawakeatnight

Hi all- love/compatibility related. I recently went on a first date with someone and I felt connected to her already, which is something that doesn't typically happen to me- and I wanted to see how my cards felt about it.

I did an 8-card compatibility spread with the prompts;

my intentions in the relationship;
their intentions in the relationship;
similarities between us;
differences between us;
physical compatibility;
mental compatibility;
emotional compatibility;
spiritual compatibility

here's what I drew and how I interpreted it. I'm still fairly new to tarot so I would love some feedback because I'm worried I'm seeing this reading as too positive.

star; I'm optimistic about our relationship. I recently went through a rough relationship, but I have done a lot of work and healing, and feel like I deserve to move on to a relationship that makes me happy. I feel like we have a lot of potential.
2 of cups; She wants to be with me, and she feels a connection with me already. She wants a healthy and supportive relationship for both of us. She wants to be romantic with me.
hierophant; We both have strong values, especially regarding marriage, education, knowledge, and commitment.
death; Different views or reactions to change. I am generally receptive to change, though I already know that she can be somewhat resistant to it and afraid of it.
knight of wands; Compatible, passionate
the sun; Compatible. We have similar goals when it comes to what we want out of a relationship and when it comes to family planning.
king of cups; Very compatible. Emotionally balanced, with a good sense of give and take, and empathy. Emotionally mature and deeply fulfilling. We will both make the effort to meet each other's emotional needs.
6 of cups; Compatible. Twin flame. Simple, innocent, and easy love. Inner child healing.

Please let me know if there are any critiques you have, or anything to add! I was trying to scrutinize this reading a lot, but it still feels too positive. Thanks 🙂

Lex

aawakeatnight Hi there,

Your interpretations are well-thought-out, but it's always good to consider potential biases, especially when you're feeling very positive. Here are some alternative perspectives on your cards:

The Star: While it’s great you feel optimistic, ensure you're not overlooking any red flags in the process.
2 of Cups: This is indeed a strong card for mutual connection, but it’s also important to see if actions align with these intentions.
The Hierophant: Shared values are crucial, but differences in how you both live those values day-to-day can still be significant.
Death: Change can be challenging. Her resistance might need more understanding and communication from both sides.
Knight of Wands: Passion is fantastic, but make sure it’s balanced with stability.
The Sun: Shared goals are great, but ensure you both have realistic expectations.
King of Cups: Emotional maturity is key. Keep an eye out for how you both handle conflicts or misunderstandings.
6 of Cups: Nostalgic and simple love is wonderful, but don’t idealize the relationship too much.
Overall, your reading is positive, but staying grounded and open to all possibilities will serve you well. Good luck!

Joanna13

Hey there!

First off, I love your enthusiasm and the detail you’ve put into your spread! It’s awesome to see someone really getting into their readings. Let’s break down your interpretation a bit and see if we can add any layers or perspectives.

The Star: You nailed this one. The Star is all about hope, renewal, and looking forward to a bright future. It's great you're feeling optimistic, especially after a tough relationship. This card says you're ready for something new and positive, and that's a good thing.
The Two of Cups: This is one of the best cards for love and relationships. It’s all about mutual attraction, partnership, and balance. Your take that she wants a supportive and romantic relationship is spot on. Trust that connection you’re feeling.
The Hierophant: This card talks about shared values and traditions. It’s great you both value important things like education and marriage. It suggests a solid foundation for a long-term relationship. Just watch out for being too rigid in your expectations; flexibility is key.
Death: Change can be tricky. It’s awesome you’re open to change, but knowing she’s resistant is important. Death isn’t negative; it’s about transformation. This could be an area to grow in your relationship, helping each other adapt.
Knight of Wands: Passion and enthusiasm are big here. This card is all about fiery energy and adventure. Physical compatibility looks strong, indicating an exciting dynamic between you two.
The Sun: The Sun means joy, success, and positivity. Your shared goals and outlooks are aligned, which is fantastic. This card signifies happiness and harmony, especially with future plans.
King of Cups: Emotional maturity and balance are key themes. It’s great you both seem to bring empathy and a willingness to meet each other’s needs. This card suggests a deep and nurturing emotional connection.
The Six of Cups: This card points to nostalgia, innocence, and a pure kind of love. Seeing this as a twin flame connection is beautiful. It indicates a relationship that feels familiar and comfortable, like coming home.

It does seem like your reading is mostly good, which is awesome! You're already doing the right thing by asking for feedback: mixing optimism with realistic goals. Be open to what happens naturally and trust your gut. Do not forget that tarot is a tool for gaining knowledge and thinking. Not figuring out what will happen in the future, but knowing what is happening now and what paths could be taken. Don't close off any options; keep enjoying your journey. 💖

WillyD

Hey there! Looks like the cards are really hyping you up! You've got The Star saying, "You’re a hopeful romantic hero, ready for something awesome." The 2 of Cups is basically the universe giving you a high-five and saying, "Yes, she likes you back. No, you're not dreaming." With Death in the mix, just remember: you're chill with change, but maybe save the surprise skydiving date for later. Overall, the cards are shouting, "Go for it, and have fun!"